WILL YALL PlEASE HELP ME?

I think im going insaine!!! i dnt even knw were to start.well i have 2 lil boys, 17 months and a 3 year old. o and a furbaby (puppy) i love my kiddos to death. i do.BUT i am looing my mind. my husband has been gone in iraq for a year, and he ha 3 more months to go.i am moving in 2 weeks, ijust found out a few days ago (just what i need, more stress)but we are moving on post getting read for my husband to come home. trust me it couldnt come any sooner.i am with my kids 24/7.i dont work, i do a thing at church but they are even there w/me.my 3 year old is HELLBENT on not listening to me. it doesnt matter what it is, he DOES NOT listen, it drives me crazy.i honestly feel like i am at wits end and am so overwhelmed. i want my husband home so bad!! im sure my kids are normal. im just SO frustrated ALLthe time, i hate it.im on meds,anxiety/dep and a migrain med. s i guess i have issues there, lol!! PLEASE what do i do, has nyone dealt with this at all/ whats a good way to deal with stress? i dont drink, i cant tell you how maytimes i wish i did, lol, i dont smoke, nothig like that, i feel like i have NO ways to relax. my inlaws willbaely ever take the boys. and dont know many people. i try to do fun things with them, i just get in such a bad mood they act awful that my mood has like sky rocketed!! lol. they havent always been like this. but te last few month they have gotten in new stages that are like from another planet, lol.i dont even know if any of this makes sence, an i am sorry. i just want advice.im sure they sence my moods, but with all thats goi on is so hard for it to not affect me, im just so stressed then they act like lil comanches and that just makes it worse!!! ok, so i have gone on and on, so i will stop, if you have any advise pleae give it, lol!!! nothing mean though, :( thanks